I am of NO help here because I am an enabler....had the same thing happen to me with my Aija and I would have signed the deed to my home over to my baby girl if she had cried for it! My momma, who was living here with us, was with Aija all day when I was at work. She told me I was the blame for this behavior, that I was making it worse because Aija never cried and moved from room to room like a sprinter when I was not here...it was when I got home that she dissolved into a pitiful, motionless, crying, helpless, little puddle of limp abused, obviously ignored red headed step child! So I feel YOUR pain and the pain of your baby! |