[ladyjane]

Originally Posted by Rhetts_mama

If people would adhere to that instead of taking it upon themselves to tell others how or what to post, much of the discord here would go away. The little triangle to the left is the best way to deal with posts you feel are out of bounds. A post deleted by the mods shuts down a spiraling thread much faster than telling someone they are rude or ineffective.

You also stated that Cathy inferred things from your post. Isn't that exactly what you are doing when you say that you can tell someone's intent?