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Originally Posted by ladyjane  Like I said, people should mind their own business. It's real simple to just report a post like the one you just used....and let the mods and/or admin handle it. The problem is NOT the person who said it....the real problem starts when others try to tell that person how wrong they are.
As for intent.....who cares what the intent is? Not something we should be judging constantly....I don't think we really know it .. not REALLY. People just think they do. Irregardless, what is it with people who chomp at the bit here to correct others?
Someone said this some time ago...I think it was Lynzy and it was great:
"Post and let post"......just like "Live and Let Live" |
The intent to one-up or belittle another is usually what starts the arguments - and shouldn't really be part of any adult lively discussion. Just sticking to the points and keeping it real is all that's necessary. I'm the last one to stop a good debate but hate to see them turn into one-line zingers and hateful back-and-forth's that go on for pages. What is the good of that?