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Originally Posted by ladyjane  If I had left every time someone on this board was nasty to me, I would have left many times. I have to laugh when a person who has been nasty to me comes around complaining about other people's posts as if they never participate.
My two cents: I agree with Ann's post with an addition of something that I have not said to her, because I don't sit here all day complaining about other people UNLESS they are completely being rude you know whats. My addition would be that she and admin talk about stopping the idiotic constant complaints within a thread of people trying to moderate other people's posts. It is ridiculous and ALWAYS leads to arguments. Why people cannot just post their thoughts and move on without saying "so and so is mean and I am nice" is beyond me. |
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Originally Posted by ladyjane Yes, and I am glad she did. I would much rather hear it from her or admin rather than other members which too frequently happens here.
I have no problem with the rules of YT. Do I think they could be added on...certainly, but it is something only they can do. I will always make suggestions if I feel it is for the betterment of the forum. I really would like for them to stop other members from playing moderator as it is terribly distracting and useless. It only creates drama and takes away from the subject at hand. Many times that is what really drives people away. I don't think some people stop to think about that. Some people try so hard to discredit others while trying to make themselves look like the only "nice" people on this forum. Whether a person agrees or not with a poster, to jump on them is not going to change what they said or their opinion. Why not just post another opinion/thought and let the OP decide who to listen to? Not saying this to you, nanahas...just saying how much more pleasant it would be here.
I am a bit confused about your last two sentences. |
Thank you for drawing a clear diagram of exactly what I was saying. THIS is one of the biggest issues on this forum IMHO. For the life of me, I don't know why people have to post as if they were the nice people and the rest were not. I really wish the policing of the threads by armchair moderators would be stopped.