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Originally Posted by chachi  We will just have to agree to disagree. I have seen too many times where someone is called rude somewhere down the line because they told the OP they need to go to the vet or other situations like that. No matter what the word that is perceived as name calling could be worded differently as others are being asked to word things differently. Like I said Ive never seen it used that it didnt start an argument |
So true. Goes to the intent of the poster - were they just trying to be helpful in their way or were they trying to gig or hurt or best the other member in some way? As I said, we all usually know intent when we see it and can readily tell when someone is truly trying to be ugly/tacky with purpose or just trying to make their point.