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Originally Posted by 107barney  I don't disagree with this and I did not say it wasn't important. I said I didn't see my posting style that way. Another person on this thread (megansmomma) said they felt prayers/good thoughts were sometimes not needed and real experience is. I think she is right about that, and don't see why others want to superimpose their posting style onto others. For every person who thinks a poster is "harsh" there are 10 others who might be appreciative of the direct no-nonsense information sharing. Some of our members are very busy with many commitments and cannot ponder their words and walk on eggshells when they just need to get it posted for what it's worth. I am not all being defensive when I say I am a problem solver-- just stating a fact. |
I actually felt Nana's comment was to my previous post regarding prayers and best wishes. Again I'll state my opinion is that prayers are wonderful and all. Heck there's prayer thread right now for me and my birth mom. If hoping those prayers work. At dealing with a serious illness for my birth mom and looking for straight forward answers to get her well and released from the hospital.