Just a quick comment. This thread is less about being defensive and more about being
willing to look in the mirror. If you're not someone who is willing to look in the mirror, then you'll always be part of the problem, if not THE problem, and never part of the solution. Ya know? I do feel that the majority of members are willing to look in the mirror, thankfully!
Thanks to all for sharing your thoughts and feedback bc we
should be able to talk about this stuff, civilly. Thanks for keeping it civil, while also keepin' it real

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