[107barney]

I think that some want to be problem solvers instead of therapists or clergy. I don't think that makes one "harsh" toward a human or whatever people are complaining about. Why not just skip over the posts you don't enjoy? As ladyjane said, it seems odd to say you're going to leave because of it or not post because of it. I mean I would truly hate to see someone go if they weren't happy, but I would hate it more knowing they stayed if they were unhappy. I think one has to shape one's expectations in a way that is going to make them happy. Ask why you read certain posters who are "triggers" and maybe start an ignore list. I like to read everyone's thoughts, but don't like when I'm targeted for being "rude" or "harsh" or "not raised correctly" or other offensive innuendos.