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  I really don't let very many people hold Shelby.  They can pet her but not hold her.  She is too wiggly and I don't want her jumping out of anyone's arms.  
 You don't want your dog freaked out by kids or he might start nipping.  I suggest controlling who gets to quietly sit and pet him by your terms. Not easy to do and stay neighborly huh?
 
 good luck
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