Thank you all so much.
I also made a commitment to her. I guess maybe that is what is bothering me a lot.
By not fulfilling my part of the bargain, I sacrifice the deposit. I would like to know if you were in her shoes, would you feel this is fair of me, or do I owe her more in some fashion?
As an aside that is very important, I need to know, along the way here, what are now the correct tests and such that I should be doing. Most of what I have read about weren't there in the day, and I do not want to be -----I want to do it right and need the new knowledge.
Thank you all for being so gracious. |