Start getting Buster used to sights and sounds associated with a baby. Get the baby gear all set up, swing the swing, play the music, open and close the diaper pail, etc. on a regular basis. If you have any access to crying babies, let Buster hear that sound! Decide right now how much access you want Buster to have to the baby's room- if you don't want him in there get him used to that NOW. Once you have the baby have DH bring a blanket home from the hospital that Baby was wrapped in. Let Buster get used to the smell while being loved and treated, he'll associate that smell with good things. Once you bring Baby home, have Buster meet baby outside. Let Buster sniff the new arrival before you bring Baby in the house and make sure Buster gets lots of treats and praise for good behavior around Baby. Never force the interactions between Baby and Buster, let them happen on their own but always supervise. Let Buster be part of the action when Baby comes home- let him sit quietly next to you as you feed the baby. Let him be on the floor during Baby's tummy time. Make sure you teach Buster that Baby's toys are NOT also Buster toys, and teach Baby that Buster's toys are not Baby's. Let them both have their own "safe" places, don't leave them alone unsupervised, and teach Baby early on not to grab and pull hair. Best of luck with your pregnancy!!!! |