Talk to her, tell her anything you think you may want to say to her before she goes.....I assured my momma that she was the most wonderful, loving, kind, fair, etc momma we could have ever had and we were so honored to have her as a momma....I assured her we would be OK and we would be able to carry on, heartbroken, but because of all she taught us and her guidance, etc, we would be able to pick up the pieces and move forward, never forgetting her, always missing her....I wanted to be sure she had no doubt we would at least survive because of the skills she had given us......tell her all the little things, regardless how little and insignificant those little thoughts from your heart may seem....just have a wonderful, peaceful chat with her....the sense of hearing is the last thing to leave, so even if she is not able to respond to you, she can hear how much you love her and how much you all will miss her....I wish I could say or do something to make this easier for you....this is one of the hardest things you will ever have to do, send your momma "home".....I will pray for you and your family,for peace and strength and Light all around you as you bid her farewell..... |