Hi and WELCOME to YT
! Yup, she most definitely looks pre-spoiled
.
I didn't do crate training for the very reasons you're experiencing -- all 3 of mine HATED the crate. I used
this pen instead and inside it had a bed, pee pad, water, food, toys for when I was away. Once they were a certain age, then we had them sleep w/ us. Ours are pee pad trained, so they can get down off the bed and pee at night. But honestly, I wish I'd trained them for outside pee only.
For treats, you could do cheerios, little training treats cut even smaller, pieces of kibble, bits of cheese.