Some consider any spanking to be abuse. I'm not one of those. I was last spanked when I was 18 years old by a black man who was the Asst. Principal at the high school I attended..It was a very rough high school and it was during a time when we were under court ordered de segregation. I left campus to go to lunch knowing that if I got caught I would be punished. I did not expect to be spanked. Much to my surprise when I returned not only did I get spanked but it was without a doubt the hardest spanking I ever got..Even at that it was probably the best spanking I ever got and I'm now thankful for it..One year later I was in a position to put that man in jail had I wanted to but instead I thanked him for teaching me to accept responsibility for my actions..Not all spanking is abuse. |