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Originally Posted by Buster Brown  I will have to respectfully disagree with you here. Yes we choose how to react but we are not always perfect. From personal experience I know that I try not to react emotionally when confronted by people but I do not always have my emotions in control and at times I lash out at people when provoked. When my emotions calm down I realize that I overreacted and apologize if I feel my feelings were an over reaction to a perceived attack. There have been many posters on YT who have felt attacked by other posts. Some were truly condescending posts, some were educational and the poster just did not want to listen to good advice, and some were misinterpreted as being attacking when that was never the attention of the poster. I know the saying is sticks and stones may hurt my bones but names can never hurt me but that is false names do hurt. I do think Bo$$ Girl went overboard. |
Having been in the situation a few times with a member where I felt I was being made to react the way I acted I had to step back and really look at it and the member was not holding a gun to my head so I choose to react to what they where doing and if my way of reacting is so bad it breaks the rules I need to work on how I react in the future.