Two things, one, you are with him all the time, husband is a special treat when he comes home, accept this and enjoy him during day and share when hubby's home.
Also co-ordinate with husband on training and expectations. I've trained dogs all my life, my wife just "Had" dogs as a kid, never really trained them. Had to teach and explain the Hows and Whys of dog behavior and training to her. When I was training at a Professional Training kennel both Obedience and protection, we used to have a saying, "you can train the dog in a few days, it will take 6 weeks to train the owner". Dogs can have favorites like people, but it could also be the "Haven't seen you all day" excitement and the lack of expectations, just playtime with hubby.
But we plan on getting two Yorkies so we each have our own |