Tried to edit to add that playing is great and dominance establishment is normal but I am worried about it being a fight and lilah getting hurt. I don't want to be overprotective and create a spoiled monster but She is quite tiny andni am surprised at te drastic difference in size. I need a sounding board for normal transitional conflict an safety boundaries (as I say this lilah wagged her tail and invited iris to play, so confused!)
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