Its also really important that you not convey to her that you are worried when you leave her because she will pick up on it and then think she should be too. Make sure you aren't saying things to her like "I'm so sorry baby but mommy has to go out now so you be a good girl" in a sad, guilty voice... or even think it! Just pick up your keys, purse, put on your shoes and coat and go out like its just the usual thing to do. You can even just do those things and then go out the door and come back in in a couple minutes, gradually lengthening the time you are gone. That will get her used to you leaving and let her know you will be back. And don't greet her in an excited way when you come in either. Just take off your coat and shoes and put them away...get a drink and then sit down and give her some lovin'. If she goes nuts when you come in, don't talk to, look at or pay any attention until she settles down so she learns that quiet, calm behavior is what gets rewarded . Another thing you could do is to get her a treat dispenser that she really has to work at and only give it to her when you go out. Put something she's crazy about in it to keep her occupied. |