do you put clothes on her at all? Becuase maybe whenever she goes out with you or you are expecting people to come over you could put a diaper on her. I have little skirted diapers that I put on chloe when I take her to my moms house. And she usually wears a cute t-shirt with it so no one even realizes she wearing diapers because she sometimes has potty problems, they just think its part of her outfits