[Yorkiemom1]

Jeanie, you have tried to explain and explain and explain, you have apologized and apologized and apologized and apologized and asked her to understand and wished her pup only the very best......some people feel empowered and "mighty" when they find themselves in a situation where they have their foot on the throat of a "kinder, gentler soul"......there is no need for you to grovel and beg for understanding and forgivness. Your intent was clear from the beginning to those wanting help with options and to those that know you....all anyone that gets advice that they are not interested in has to do is overlook it......to constantly bring it up and beat the advisor relentlessly about the head and heart, clearly points to an insecurity and lack of sensitivity by the OP.