Jeanie, everyone here is very well aware of the kind of person you are and what is in your heart. You BANISH the thought of leaving this forum, because an OP gets their panties in a wad over advice you offered with NOTHING more than an attempt to get that unfortunate pup help. Hopefully, we will not have to continue to open up her posts and CONTINUE to see this dead horse kicked around, ad nauseaum. Hopefully, she will either get over advice that was given as per her request for help, or she will follow her own first impulse and seek her help elsewhere. If she does decide to stay, perhaps she will opt to be "a good neighbor" and hopefully the remainder of the community does not have to continue to read in each and every one of her posts, individual members that have been members of this forum for a very long time, singled out by name, and berated and chastised and humiliated by this person for an honest attempt to provide options for help. There are always those members that "pile on" and complain about the way, or the tone, or the method a poster tries to give advice or help, for not being "warm and fuzzy" enough, or "too direct" or "too brutal "or "too honest".....where is the support for long time members who are now continously referred to as "bad apples", rude, unkind, etc, when this was NOT at all the case???!!! It would be gracious and kind, in my opinion, if this OP would be "called off" by someone, anyone SHE will listen to.....let it go! Stop singling out BY NAME, everytime you post, people that you do not know, who have taken their precious time to respond to YOUR desperate plea for help, in an effort to give you options. If you dont like the option given, ignore it.....stop obscessing over it, name calling, etc. I do not understand why this continual badgering and harrassing and being singled out BY NAME IN EVERY POST SHE MAKES, is allowed to continue. Dont YOU go any place Jeanie....hopefully, this obcession will soon pass.....beating a dead horse over and over and over gets REAL old. We ALL have problems and issues and disabilities that life continually shovels at us. ....she has not realized that she is not the only person that may have problems, health or financial or emotional. Do NOT give this a second thought Jeanie....you ignore this and continue to provide the wonderful, thoughtful, kind, EXPERIENCE, and useful options for solutions to the many, many people that come here, looking for help and NOT a fight. |