So sorry to hear about your baby!!
I'm not experienced in this, so can't give you any advice. Hope that some one else will chime in with some though. Just wanted to say that I will be sending positive thoughts your way and hope that you get an answer to what is the matter with your baby, that she heals fully and gets back to her spunky self. BTW I didn't find your post too long... you needed to give the background and your detailed situation, which may seem long to you.