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Originally Posted by My lil friend  To be mature is to find a bit of compassion for someone in which we do not have all of the facts,instead of just saying whatever and however we are thinking. As for cussing,remember that there is an ocean between us and that I have not used a cuss word. There will not be another personal post from me because yes I can ignore you as well as use that particular button on the forum.
As for Michele's intent or experience,you really don't know her life experiences where births are concerned. She poured her heart out and you jumped on it because you could. She poured her heart out in hopes that people would find this thread that were considering pups. I assure you that she in not looking for your sympathy or anyone elses. The heartfelt pain that she has is her own and she is most certainly not asking for anyone to make it better,although I see some great advice from Yorkiemom1,thanks to you she may not see it. Knowing her as I do,I am pretty sure that she could put the grief in her life next to yours and it would pretty much come out the same,but so could I. You can give your opinion and that is fine, we all have the right to do that. That includes me. |
Nah, I don't have a spiteful bone in my body. I don't ''jump'' on people to be an ass just because I can. I do have quite an intolerance for people that know better than to make the mistake that they did then expect so much sympathy for it. If you don't want sympathy or negativity then don't go posting in a public forum, or responding to the comments? I'm glad she did make this post because yes it does show that inexperience and irresponsibility with breeding can have dire consequences. Yes, you are right about us all having an opinion. The only difference here is, I willingly accept all opinions even negative ones, and I don't try to shut people's freedom of speech out just because I disagree with it or it's too insensitive for me. You think I'm being mean? I can tell you of a few other forums, where some people would make this person feel like never even owning a dog again for what she did. I'm not mean, I'm logical. I don't care if you ignore me either, or respond to what I say in a heartfelt way...That's all on you. I'm just a person on the internet, I'm not your next door neighbor. Trust me, I wont go commit suicide because people online ignore my posts.