I know it's hard for you right now, so spend your time doing what makes you comfortable, not what you feel you have to do. The holiday is just a date on a calendar and to many people make such a big deal out of the preparing for the date that they forget to enjoy the company of the people in their lives or the days leading up to it. I have a friend that LOL decorates when she wants to, her Halloween stuff was up during Christmas last year and her Christmas things went up right afterwards and she enjoyed every bit of it, because it was based on her schedule not the calendar, she is single with no kids so of course that made things easier, but still she did what she wanted and so should you. |