I think it should be just like skin kids. I've always let my kids work it out for themselves, as long as no one is getting hurt. Kevin was bigger and use to win all of the time, but Megan learned to fight for what she wants and he can no longer push her around, even though he's about 8 inches taller! I wouldn't separate them unless Jack is getting hurt. Poor Eddie, he just wants to be the big brother and he keeps getting kicked out of the house for it! I wouldn't give the alpha what he wants every time, that seems cruel to the other one. Let them work it out for themselves. (And take pictures) |