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Originally Posted by xxmxaxrxyxx  i have emailed the daughter telling her that i am have been torn between the decision on letting him stay with her mom because i have 5 years of mourning a loss that i need to heal and questions that need answers. i feel that it is in both of our best interest to give it a shot. to see how he reacts. i know he has been through a lot since he was taken that day. and probably will be a lot different than he was. i just hope that i have the strength to help him and not let him down. i don't want to fail him he doesn't deserve it. maybe that is why i am also scared. scared i will fail. the daughter told me "Just do what you think is right we love him but understand whatever you decide. I had a cat stolen so I know how you feel and would do anything to have her back. You have all my info if you wanna talk or visit let me know." so i know it won't be a problem to get him back. but from some of the pictures i looked at, i can't really tell if it is him. i am waiting to speak to the vet that scanned his chip tomorrow to ask a few more questions. and then i am going to see if there was a way she can take him up to my vet which is close to the daughters house to get scanned since that is where he was microchipped at. i was back home from the end of may to middle of august. and she found him june 1st. but i was now only notified a few days ago that he was found and now i am back at work. how do i take off anymore time when i just got back from being off 2.5 months. why didn't his chip scan when i was home so i could have ran to get him? i am more confused now than ever. the daughter stated that she had a vet tech friend scan him for a chip when he was first found but no chip was found. then when she rehomed him with her mother her mother took him to a vet in winfield, ks who scanned since it was procedure to scan for any chips when a dog is bought in as strayed. so i have questions to ask the vet as to when did he scan the chip. so many questions bouncing through my mind. can't sleep, can't think, just going crazy right now. |
I understand your emotions are all over the place. Why wouldn't they be? But okay, accept that fact and keep it moving in the meantime.
PLEASE GO GET THIS POOR BABY! This is so upsetting to watch/witness -- all this hesitation. I'm sorry, but I must be honest here. If this were my baby, I'd be OUT THE DOOR in my PJs, if need be, to get that baby in my arms. My God, he needs you; you don't even *know* this person he is living with. PLEASE get him asap!