i have emailed the daughter telling her that i am have been torn between the decision on letting him stay with her mom because i have 5 years of mourning a loss that i need to heal and questions that need answers. i feel that it is in both of our best interest to give it a shot. to see how he reacts. i know he has been through a lot since he was taken that day. and probably will be a lot different than he was. i just hope that i have the strength to help him and not let him down. i don't want to fail him he doesn't deserve it. maybe that is why i am also scared. scared i will fail. the daughter told me "Just do what you think is right we love him but understand whatever you decide. I had a cat stolen so I know how you feel and would do anything to have her back. You have all my info if you wanna talk or visit let me know." so i know it won't be a problem to get him back. but from some of the pictures i looked at, i can't really tell if it is him. i am waiting to speak to the vet that scanned his chip tomorrow to ask a few more questions. and then i am going to see if there was a way she can take him up to my vet which is close to the daughters house to get scanned since that is where he was microchipped at. i was back home from the end of may to middle of august. and she found him june 1st. but i was now only notified a few days ago that he was found and now i am back at work. how do i take off anymore time when i just got back from being off 2.5 months. why didn't his chip scan when i was home so i could have ran to get him? i am more confused now than ever. the daughter stated that she had a vet tech friend scan him for a chip when he was first found but no chip was found. then when she rehomed him with her mother her mother took him to a vet in winfield, ks who scanned since it was procedure to scan for any chips when a dog is bought in as strayed. so i have questions to ask the vet as to when did he scan the chip. so many questions bouncing through my mind. can't sleep, can't think, just going crazy right now. |