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Originally Posted by Nancy1999  We’ve talked about this before, how people can’t tolerate certain qualities in others because they can’t tolerate these same qualities in themselves. Even Carol displayed this when she reveals how much she can’t tolerate Rick’s indecisiveness. This is because she’s angry at her own earlier indecisiveness. I remember you wrote once that you try to discover why some people rub you the wrong way and can pull your chains. You said that you believed it taught you more about yourself, so I’ve tried that same exercise and it so revealing. |
It's so true, how the people who bother us the most are usually the ones who remind of us something in ourselves, or some way that we used to be at one time. You're right, it's so revealing that it's kinda scary! Whenever someone rubs me the wrong way, I think "look in the (literal/figurative) mirror" - and I always learn something.
So true about Carol and her earlier indecisiveness...she can no longer tolerate it / deal with it bc of her anger at her past. I think it's stuff like this that has me so hooked on this show - it's so psychologically fascinating! And you know how that always reels me in
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