Good lord why do some people have to be cruel to get a point across. SHE GETS IT!
Sometimes I really think about abandoning this site because of some of the bashing that goes on with people who may have made a mistake but are looking for help and guidance. Then I remember about how much help I received when I started on here with some truly lovely people who really guided me through the course of having Jess come into our lives (you know who you are

. I cant tell you how much you helped me. I then realize that if I leave its one less person who can objectively look at a situation, good or bad and try and help with kindness. (that's not to say we haven't had some less than nice posters on here that got what they deserved) I just don't think this is one of them.