If I were your neighbor, I would get the Alpha wannabe girl busy at one of the free Nothing In Life Is Free programs from the many on the Internet and properly desensitize her to having the other dog around playing and living its life by reshaping her behavior using a good obedience training program 5 mins. 3 times daily and desensitization training. Learning how to control her own impulses and respond to your neighbor better, looking to your neighbor as her pack leader and the desensitization training together should all together help bring the new alpha wannabe around.
__________________  Jeanie and Tibbe One must do the best one can. You may get some marks for a very imperfect answer: you will certainly get none for leaving the question alone. C. S. Lewis |