Oh boy, Michele, I really feel for you
. I do NOT like the sound of this guy. He sounds extremely controlling and I don't like that one bit bc I feel that type of personality usually leads to wanting more and more control, and right into the realm of being abusive. He has so many red flags and I wish she could see it. What does she truly see in him, I wonder....ya know?
I also wonder what her friends think of him bc girlfriends can often say things that Mom's can't and/or the friend will be listened to more bc it's not their Mom. Do her friends like him?
Your daughter sounds so awesome - she sure deserves better than this and I hope she finds it one day.