I am so sorry that you are going through this; it is tough being a parent!
All I can offer is that she is your daughter and you will love her no matter what happens. We may not always agree or approve of what our children do, but letting them know that we love them means a lot.
I have a daughter who is 30 and is with a person who hits her! He has no job, lives off her and has no intentions of changing. I have talked to her until I am blue in the face, and it does no good. She has a psychiatrist and a counselor and still it does no good. I don't hold back in telling her how I feel as I believe in being totally honest in our relationship. Yes, she does what she wants anyway, but at least she knows how I feel.
I'm sorry I am not much help, but your post touched my heart. I hope things get better and be sure to reach out to us if you need to talk.
Take care!
Katheleen |