Wow that is intense! Sad you had to ask for kindness - I have seen a few vicious responses though and felt very afraid to post when I first got here! Made me a lurker, lol. What an energetic dog you have! I know often long walks are not recommended for the little guys, sounds like your lady wouldn't do without them! There are actually a lot of calming supplements for dogs on the market so you must not be alone. Calm aid by nature vet is one I am aware of. Have you got doggy day care in your area? Portland is packed with them! And play groups, maybe your lady needs another dog friend to play with? Nothing like another frisky pup to chew on each others legs! Good luck