Wise people - people who have been through Hell and back say don't ever make big decisions during times of grief and tragedy. Don't make the rehoming decision now - you will live to regret making decisions when you are hurting and not thinking clearly. Give it a few days. Cassie will be fine there - just no big decisions to affect her and your life right now, okay?
__________________  Jeanie and Tibbe One must do the best one can. You may get some marks for a very imperfect answer: you will certainly get none for leaving the question alone. C. S. Lewis |