Get the treats out. As you brush, give her treats over and over, with each stroke of the brush. Eventually she'll accept it. That's what I had to do with Matthias.
So far as putting a bow in the hair? For Mattie it's a two person job. First I wrap him snuggly and tightly in a big towel, then one person holds his head straight so he stops looking at every single noise and I put the bow in. After that he gets treats again and he's off playing. |