In Vilettes defense, she was just trying to make me feel welcome. She has a valid point about the small mindedness of some people. I know a few gay people who are that way too. It happens everywhere, LOL!! I understand what you are saying too orinskye (sorry I dont know your name). In a perfect world you can have a discussion with someone who has been raised on hate, but in my experience as a gay woman, those kinda folks wont even TALK to a gay person in the first place. I would love to try and change minds, but sometimes, the minds are happy where they are. I have learned to move on quietly, and live and let live. More power to you if you can change a few opinions. Thanx for trying and thanx for not being one of those "minds". |