first off I have to say, I love your user name, for all you have been through and then to use the name Sunny daze says a lot about your outlook on life. Sounds like Gizmo is just the medicine you need, he is a doll. My husband and I have no kids and I can't imagine what our life would have been like these past 25 years without a little furbutt in it, Oh I guess I can imagine, it would be BORING