Thanks for all your support and comments..Jada has always been Miss Piggy and I do use a slow feed bowl and treat puzzles to slow her down. She still won't chew her food
I am using a food chopper to make her kibble smaller and its not an option to get smaller kibble since she is allergic to so much (this one kibble is the only thing she tolerates well) I am putting warm water over it now too.
My vet also suggested waiting for a while,after I come home in the evening, to feed both Jada and Bogie (give them a chance to settle down) and he also suggested hand feeding if chopping her kibble up wasn't feasible..heck I will chew her kibble and spit it into a bowl, like a momma bird does if it will help her to keep from choking
ps..never ever ever leave your babies unsupervised while eating if they are like Jada and inhale their food whole. I shudder to think the outcome if I hadn't been right there.