I am sooooo glad to read all the effort you are making for sweet Lola. While our house isn't wild and crazy (unless football is on) Georgie does cower sometimes and shake. My husband or myself just rubs his belly and reassures him it's ok. My son is 5 and we have worked with him to understand Georgie is small and he needs to relax. It's actually quite nice because he's learned to be quiet and gentle. Again, I really glad things are working out! You have a great family and I know Lola is a happy girl