Can you set up a training sessions? Have your son and wife, yourself take the one that pulls the scrunchies out and your girl.. Put it in her hair, wait till he goes to pull it out and have your son say No and correct him.. do this a couple times a day.
I think that would be the best bet here, he needs to be taught that is not ok to do.
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