Thank you for the advice
he's definitely the one I'm leaning to and will be making the decision weds. When we first visited the breeders home my husband was fawning over the male but since I was so "set"'on a female he just let it go and didn't say anything to me about it. @RhettsMama you're gonna get me banned from YT by my husband hehehe I always tell him it's time for an "upgrade"