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Originally Posted by Rhetts_mama I'm a bad influence. I say take both. You can always get a new husband  |
Hilarius!!
I would say take the male. It seems that you both are more connected.
Put sex aside and go with your gut.
Both females and males can be wonderful companions! Just go with the one you feel more drawn to.
It looks like he chose you

Why not choose him as well
And if you feel a good connection with the female too, go with her (your husband will have to adjust and he will fall in love with them!)
But, don't go with her because you'll feel bad. If you go with both, do it because you feel great with both