Today is the third time I literally had to grab Bentley from someone else's arms!!

They come and approach him, start petting him and that's fine with me, but next thing I know they are holding him in their arms

and I have to say "Oh he wiggles a lot, he doesnt like to be held!" And I have to grab him and put him on the floor again.
Omg I am going to take deep breaths and count until 10 ...
You know, before Bentley and before coming here, it never crossed my mind to hold someone else's dog or child without permission. I wouldnt even try to pet a dog I don't know without talking to the owner first
I might add he started to wiggle and trying to get away from this girl. He doesnt like to be held, even when I hold him he gives me a kiss just so I can get off his case and put him on the floor again lol