Yay, you found the thread! I'm sorry your son was feeling so icky. I've had ear aches from swimming before..no fun! Glad he is doing better today.
So happy to read this update. I think it is great that you are preparing and you are a nurse! Love that you have the nanny cam set up, too.
These ladies won't let you down, so lean on their knowledge to help your lady thru this.