 Human Pack Leader
I would recommend reading anything you can find on becoming the human pack leader. Animals are animals no matter how much we dress them up. It is true that with time animals work these things out and harmony ensues in the home. Sometimes it does not work out on its own and that can lead to a dog becoming injured physically or mentally. It is better to understand the 'pack' mentality of dogs and you will be guaranteed harmony in your home. I am not sure but I believe giving the female back will only teach the male to be the aggressor and he will get his way.
Ceasar Milan, "The Dog Whisperer" is the most commonly known expert on this subject but there are hundreds of articles online. A little bit of reading with a day's practice and you will be amazed with the difference in your dog's behavior with each other.
My dogs are so much happier since my husband and I finally understood the Human Pack Leader concept. I hope it helps in your situation.
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