Its ok with me if someone does not want to come because they can't bring their children, as long as they are not mad at me for not inviting the kids. Our reception was no kids under 13. We just addressed the invitations are Mr. & Mrs. and not family. 99% of the guests thanked us for giving them a day (we had a day wedding) away from the kids to have a nice meal and fun with their significant other. Hubbys sister (whose 2 kids were invited!) was talking behind my back to the family saying if her kids were not invited she was not going (just be a b***ch bc she knew her kids were invited) she was just trying to cause trouble with the family and me. I can't stand her anyways!
Don't like it, don't come!