Well bless your heart!!! My youngest daughter has been talking to me about her wedding and she is trying to avoid all the hassle a big wedding can be. She has decided that she wants to be married at the courthouse (her dad and I were) and just have immediately families present then go out to a nice dinner (we did that too). So I think I understand what you are going through. I also helped my oldest daughter plan a big wedding and I had to do most of the work because she was living out of state at the time. It was wonderful fun and she, and we, have wonderful memories of that day.
I would recommend you take a deep breath and if you haven't already, make a list of the things you need to accomplish to have the wedding you want. Remember its your day. After you make a list (I kept a notebook with pictures and ideas for each part of the day (pre-ceremony, ceremony, reception) and plan accordingly. Take it one step at a time and you will be fine. I hope you have a wonderful wedding experience and remember it needs to be fun not stressful!! Blessings!!
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