You and your wife need time too, to grieve. Sometimes just telling each other how you feel helps. Try to remember some goofy incident that happened with Buddy, or some happy time with him that made both of you smile. That's how we got through loosing our dogs. Tearful memories at 1st, but they did make us smile through the tears, and allowed us to be happy that our pups shared our lives even if the time they were with us seemed too short. Most were with us 14 to 16 yrs, so there was many happier times to remember.
Your loss is new, give yourselves time, it will get better.
And like someone else posted- YT members are always here for you and your wife. |