I am sorry about your loss!! It is so hard and all I can say is it takes time and yes talking about it does help!! Welcome by the way - you will find a lot of support here!!
By the way we are neighbors - I live in Stuarts Draft!! I thought that was neat to see somewhere so close!! Nothing can take the place of your Poohbear but your other babies I am sure are doing all they can to cheer you up - sometimes it's just enough to have to take of another to get you through the day. Beleive it or not it will get easier and easier to smile when you think of her and how she warmed your heart!!
