Welcome to Yorkie Talk. You are wonderful for adopting Sweet Betty!
There might be something in her history that has made her fearful of men. She may also be afraid of losing you and her new home. We brought home our Teddy when he was 8 months old from our breeder's loving home. Although he came from a great situation and was well trained and socialized, I think he was so in love with his new home and he feared going away again. We also had the problem of people running up to us and wanting to grab him to cuddle or pet. For a small dog, this is very scary.
Tell your husband to keep doing what he is doing, be patient and gentle. Never force any interaction. Have him offer treats and food and don't force her to take it from his hand. Have him put it in her food bowl or on the floor. Have him praise her for good behavior. Basically let her come to him on her terms.
If she likes walks, go walking together with your husband. Any activity that she likes, try to make it so that Sweet Betty associates these positive things with your husband.
Share some pictures when you can.
__________________ Kristin, Max and Teddy  |